We often ask other views about love.
One of the most Question we ask is: How do you know if it's Real Love?
Whenever your heart beating fast every time his presence is near you,
and going faster when he come near to you and maybe you feel nervous when you
know he's only there doing nothing to you.
In most situation, It will pop up to your mind that he is the one for
you, "the real one" for you. BUT the question is how we'll know if
it's LOVE?
In LOVE,You will sometimes be confused if it's Love
or Just INFATUATION.
These two feelings differ in their conditions and facts about love.
What is INFATUATION? Infatuation is when you think of a person like you
are falling in love with him or her, and you are so interested in that person
but that feeling is for a short period of time.
Thinking you are in love but the truth is, it is just a lust. There is an "attraction" but it is only "sexual
attraction". That's why for other people, it's sucks because at the end, they will
find out that they are completely wrong about what they feel, that love they
thought for real suddenly disappear.
That infatuation stage feels like you can't wait to be with someone.
You can't wait, it means you maybe being impatient.
Perhaps, It could be called a romantic and intense kind of love.
But i will tell you again that Infatuation, is for a short period of
time only.
Love is when the one you love's happiness is more important than your
own happiness.
Love is a decision to commit yourself to someone and to work your
relationship even there are tall walls awaits between the both of you and
conflicts, you're going to continue loving, instead of quitting.
It's attraction and Chemistry is in a longer period of time.
10 ways to know If It's Real Love
10. Love Is not Selfish
9. Do Believe about the best about others around him.
8. Does not "keep score" of the faults of others
7. Do not put and tear down others.
6. Is not conceited, isn't self-centered and always perseveres.
5. Is patient with others, even when they are irritating
4. Is not happy when someone else gets hurt
3. Helps out others, even if it's inconvenient.
2. Celebrates the successes of others and happy
1. Never ever give up!
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Others say that love is the key to
life, that love is the fuel of life and without it, life would be dreary and
dull. Some believe that love is the most
powerful force in the world. But Whatever it is, our capacity to be
able to love is limitless. It's a special gift from God that must
be shared to others.
There are thousand and one ways of
expressing our love, concern, care and compassion for others, from a simple
warm greeting of love, hugs, to sacrificing one's life for others.
Everyday, we should share our love for
others and spread good cheer not just during special occasions.
Not also just to members of your family
and friends but to others whenever that there is an opportunity or time to
share love that comes our way. It is not something that is scheduled
and screened. It comes from within us spontaneously.
Love is more than the mechanical act of
giving and sharing. It is the human concern and empathy that makes the act of
giving meaningful. In other words, you cannot give without
loving, but you cannot love without giving.
When all relationships, political
conflicts, religious strife and other kinds of turmoil, many things fail, try
solving the problem by applying the love prescription. Love never fails.
Let’s be concerned beyond personal
needs and share our blessings with other people. Because this is what life is
all about by putting the love in to action.
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Radical Love (Unconditional love of Jesus)
Think about it: Jesus took every opportunity to let people know what God
was really like. While some opened their hearts to know God more, others were
angered by what they heard. Sometimes Jesus teaching could be pretty radical.
Like the time he told his crowd of followers, "Love your enemies and pray
for anyone who mistreats you. Then you will be acting like your Father in
heaven."
